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about friends of youth 

our story 

In 1950, a Washington woman named Iva Matsen saw a gap in her community; there were not enough homes or community services for young people in crisis, and she refused to accept it. The world had not made room for young people facing challenges, so she and her partner rallied their faith community, University Congregational Church, and did something about it. In 1951, Friends of Youth was officially incorporated. Members of the Matsen family remain active and involved in the agency to this day.

 

For 75 years, that instinct—see a need, do something about it—has carried us forward. When the world says no, we say yes. That’s what friends do. 

 

Friends of Youth’s programs are rooted in national best practices. We are a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, nationally accredited by the Council on Accreditation, which reviews and affirms the quality of our services.  

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vision 

Friends of Youth envisions all youth having every opportunity to succeed. 

mission 

We partner with youth and families to provide the relationships, resources, and skills they need to attain personal growth and success. 

how we serve

Building trusting relationships with young people and families starts with a strength-based approach — honoring and building on the strengths, resources, and relationships each young person or family already brings. 

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In our programs youth, young adults, and families impacted by homelessness, mental health concerns, or the foster care system, are supported by working closely with a committed team to turn big goals into smaller, manageable steps. Together, we co-create a plan reflecting the person's own goals and needs — whether that's employment or education services, mental health supports, parenting skill development, accessing childcare, obtaining housing or building healthier relationships and community connections. 

 

Harm Reduction 

We meet each person where they are, without judgment. Harm reduction is a vital part of building an environment where young people feel safe and welcome. All employees are trained in harm reduction principles, partnering with young people as they learn and explore healthier behaviors and build positive relationships on their own terms. 

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Trauma-Informed Care 

Every service area at Friends of Youth is delivered from a trauma-informed philosophy. We train employees and volunteers on the impact of trauma and engage young people and families in a way that accounts for it. We see young people and families become the authors of their own stories, as we build personal goals and plans together. 

equity 

Our work exists within large, complex systems — and we are committed to challenging, changing, and dismantling the structural and historical oppression that affects youth, young adults, and families within them. Friends of Youth is dedicated to becoming an antiracist, multicultural organization: our programs are designed to be inclusive, affirming, and responsive to our youths' complex identities, and we prioritize hiring employees who reflect the communities we serve, including multilingual and multicultural staff fluent in the languages our young people speak. 

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Equity Statement: Friends of Youth welcomes, honors, and celebrates our clients, colleagues, and communities’ diverse identities, histories, knowledges, languages, and cultures. Our organizational values shape the way we work individually and collectively, as we prioritize young people’s belonging and achievement. We work to challenge, alter, and ultimately dismantle interconnected systems of structural and historic oppression. We collaborate with community stakeholders and partners to develop policy and decision-making frameworks that advance racial equity. 

our values

Youth First — We consider the impact on youth in every decision we make, drawing on the inherent strengths of the individuals and communities we serve. 

 

Relationships — Constructive relationships are essential to a fulfilled life. We seek them with the youth and families we serve and help them build the same in their own lives. 

 

Equity — We are committed to an inclusive movement toward empowerment and social justice — understanding and addressing the unique challenges youth face, advocating for change, and ensuring fair, culturally relevant access to the best opportunities for all youth and families. 

Quality — We hold ourselves to the highest standard of service, internally and externally validated, delivered with safety and confidentiality. 

 

Collaboration — We work together to improve outcomes for the individuals and families we serve. 

 

Accountability — We hold ourselves to the highest fiscal, professional, and ethical standards, for everyone who depends on us — internally and externally. 

careers

Are you aligned with Friends of Youth's vision and values? Join our amazing team serving youth, young adults, and families. See open positions and connect for future opportunities: Friends of Youth Career Opportunities

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our community

leadership, board and employees

youth and families

donors, partners and supporters

Our leadership, board, and employees are accountable stewards of this community — well-trained, trauma-informed, kind, and mentor-focused. We're committed to continually building a better environment for our team to grow and evolve.

We center the youth, young adults, and families in our care, always, without exception. Our doors are open, and our resources are continuous, providing a true community of support.

We are honored to have a generous community of donors, partners, and supporters who trust Friends of Youth to spend responsibly and with good judgment. We are grateful for what they bring — to our leadership, board, employees, youth, and families — every single day.

meet the board

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Pete Lohr

​Board Chair

Boeing (Retired)​

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Karla Easton

Retired

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Sandy Nathan

Eastside Pathways

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Jeff Merrifield

Secretary

Ernst & Young​​

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David Irwin

Irwin Development Group

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Yelena Stock

Zachor, Stock & Krepps, Inc., P.S.  

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Themba Dayton

Treasurer

​HUB International

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Judith Mercer

Retired

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Shalini Thuppal Prakash

King County

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Junior Bermeo

College Success Foundation

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Arianna Morales

Student - University
of Washington 

meet the executive leadership team

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Paul Lwali

Chief Executive Officer 

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Hala Nuemah

Vice President and Chief Operating Officer

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Terri Glaberson

Chief Administrative 

Officer

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Rehana Kajani

Chief of Staff

Senior Leadership

meet senior leadership

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Porscha Anderson

Director of Homeless Youth Services, Housing and

Support Services

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Christina Campos

Clinical Director of Youth and Family Services

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Travis Finney

Senior Director
of Philanthropy

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Courtney Murray

Director of Risk and Compliance

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Rachel Bergman

Director of Government and Community Grants

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Tori Cue

Senior Director of Human Resources

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Whitney Flores

Director of Learning and Development

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Andrew Routier

Senior Executive Assistant

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Kim Boyce

Controller

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Angela De La Hoz

Senior Director

of Equity and Community Strategies

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Pamela Hect

Director of Finance

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Noehly Tzintzun

Director of Shelter Services and
Bridge Pointe

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Eric Buley

Senior Director
of Homeless
Youth Services

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Brooke Drennon

Senior Director, Youth and Family Services

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Cyprian Mbugua

Senior Director

of Facilities

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